Question: Wedding attire

So I’m going to a wedding in March, my sister in law’s. Genna will be flower girl, Wally will be ring bearer. There’s a strong chance that I’ll need to help Genna down the asile. And of course I’ll still be nursing.

Here’s my question.

Should I find a nice nursing dress to wear, or should I wear one of my vintage suits?

- Nursing dress: might be dressier, but I’d wear it only once and it would probably cost quite a bit. Traveling to the wedding is already costing us a LOT of money, so I’m not eager to add to the expenses.

- Vintage suit: more my style, and they are OK to nurse in, but it does involve unbuttoning the jacket and then also unbuttoning my shirt. This is a lot of buttoning and unbuttoning.

I don’t plan to go into another room to nurse, but can if I need to. I guess I’m assuming I can. If there’s another room other than the bathroom, I can.

So… thoughts? I’ve never had to attend a dress-up event with a nursing baby.

Somebody asked… about help

Thought this might be worth a blog post, since it’s come up a lot recently.

I don’t give out my supplier information. Just as a general rule. I’m sorry.

It’s not to be mean. It’s not – as has been suggested – because I’m afraid of competition. It’s not because I want new businesses to fail.

It’s for the same reason that, when teaching dance lessons, I don’t give students written notes on what we’ve learned. It’s for the same reason that I don’t let Wally use a calculator when doing math.

Would it be easier, shorter? Yes. Would it save our dance students work, avoid “re-inventing the wheel,” to give them my notes? Sure. Would it save time to let Wally use a calculator? Absolutely.

But, as was said in a book I recently read, the benefit is in the seeking. (The Chronicles of Prydain.)

First of all, most people who’ve owned their CD operations for as long as I have had to work pretty hard to find their suppliers. Not only locating potential suppliers, but then also contacting suppliers, purchasing samples, testing the samples, making preliminary orders, finding through trial and error who is and who isn’t reliable, etc. It’s expensive and it’s time-consuming.

So, yeah, I’m not eager to just hand my hard work over to newcomers to the industry, simply because it was a lot of work. I’m not alone in this sentiment.

Second, I’m not going to say that digging up supplier information is a rite of passage or anything. But it is part of the new business experience. And I think there is a benefit to be gained in the seeking of your own suppliers. Not only just for the experience… but because, who knows, you might unearth some really awesome supplier that nobody currently uses. How boring if we all got our fabric from the same source? (And in a few cases, most CD makers do get all of one supply or another from the same source, and those sources inevitably have poor customer service because there’s virtually no competition.)

Third, though this might sound snotty, if you can’t use Google, you need to really re-think whether you should own a business. And I’m not just being snarky, I’m being honest. If you really can’t figure out who my supplier for Prorap covers is, as was seriously recently asked of me, then are you going to be able to navigate child-product laws or HTML? (In case you don’t understand why that is funny… the supplier for Prorap covers is, um, Prorap.) If you can’t figure out how to get ahold of Touchtape, are you going to be similarly stumped when you need to get a sales tax permit?

There are good resources out there. Use them!

It’s not that I’m unwilling to help. To the contrary, I’ve helped out countless new business owners over the years, either through advice, answering of questions, helping with marketing, product testing, or whatever was asked of me. Not only cloth diaper or babywearing businesses, but other baby products businesses, and a few completely unrelated WAHM businesses. I’m more than willing to help. But I’m not going to do your work for you.

Sneak Peek

New Cover

Genna modeling some new fleece covers I’m working on. They’re FURRY!

Today

Today I turned this pile of elastic’d fleece covers:
A day's work.

Into this pile of seamed and tagged fleece covers:
A day's work.
(ok, the actual pile was about 3x this large)

And this pile of cut flannel hankies:
A day's work.

Into this pile of finished hankies:
A day's work.

Yesterday!

I spent the day yesterday talking to two Family and Consumer Sciences classes at a local high school. The topic? Natural Parenting. We covered cloth diapers, babywearing, breastfeeding, natural birthing, positive discipline, and many other topics. The kids seemed really interested and asked some good questions, including:

- Don’t you HAVE to breastfeed for 3 months? (How I wanted to answer that one with “yes.”)

- Why do people eat placenta? (i did not bring this up!!) (this led one confused young man to ask if we were talking about eating our periods. Um, no. I’m very glad you asked, though.)

- Did my husband agree with the way we raise our children. In my answer, I deftly skirted the issue of religious beliefs about the role of husband and wife in marriage, and stuck to “in our family, my husband has delegated all child-related decision-making to me, as the primary caregiver.”

The students were incredulous that an epidural might affect a baby, or that homebirth can be safer than a hospital birth. I encouraged them to research the issues themselves. I hope they do.

Inventory

This is the pile of Medium Pocket Diapers waiting to be listed. (They’ve been listed now!)

11/14 Pocket Dipes new inventory

Extended Warranties

I read a blog post about extended warranties today, and apparently the general advice is to never buy them.

Are these warranty contracts ever a good deal? They shouldn’t be. To make a profit, the private companies that offer these things need to take in more money than they pay out in warranty claims. And they do make money. The profit margin on extended warranties is reputed to be between 40 percent and 80 percent. Anyone buying an extended warranty is betting against the house.

 

While I know that’s true, and while I used to NEVER buy an extended warranty, now we’ll buy the extended warranty for nearly every electronics device we purchase. Much like the author of the blog piece, I have my reasons. Their names are Wally and Genna. (And, frankly, Randy and Sarah.)

My DS stopped working last month. Nintendo repaired it for me for free, and returned it with a note about “foreign matter” in the housing. Right. That would probably be baby drool, from when I found Genna teething on it.

Our Ipod has quit working I don’t know how many times, usually directly related to suffering some sort of traumatic drop or fall.

My laptops get some pretty harsh treatment, just from ME! Though my current unit has been working problem free since July, my two models before that, I definitely got my money’s worth out of the warranties. (Actually, the extended warranties – both times – ended up getting me my money back, meaning that I’ve bought three laptops in the last 5 years, but only paid for the first one.)

Yes, we’ve had our share of extended warranties that didn’t get used… but I think, since having kids, the extended warranties have been a pretty good deal around our house.

 

Bowling while Nursing = Key to strikes

Bowling with Glanns

We went bowling with some friends on Sunday. I hit my only strike of the night (and my second spare) while nursing Genna. I’m sure the other patrons were impressed at my mad skills.

Babywearing in Action

Bowling with Glanns

Babywearing is useful for so many more things than just going for walks or getting housework done.

Cloth Diaper Giveaway

Some of you might know (or know of) my friend Sara Janssen. Sara and I met when our oldest kids were just babies and found we had so much in common. Now Sara and her family travel the country, and we don’t get to see each other very often, but we keep in touch the modern way – through Facebook and blogging, lol.

Sara’s giving away an awesome cloth diaper package, including some Wallypop items, through her blog Walk Slowly, Live Wildly. Check it out!